Monday, January 25, 2010

Who’s difficult to understand?

 

You read on magazines, and even the newspaper, where it is proclaimed that women are hard to understand.

But do you know why? Its all a misunderstanding. Women, had tried for ga-zillion years to understand the needs of man, and in turn, try to act or become what they thought to be the right kind of women. Along the way, women are confused, deluded, ….I don’t know…in serious cases, they became obsessed in getting it right.

Standing outside the box, looking at the situation as a third party, you’ll see women as someone who can’t make up their mind (as they battle within themselves to live as a women or to live as what they perceived as the women that man loves?). Its like an identity crisis…really.

SO…back to my point. If you look at it that way, its no wonder that man thinks that women are one complicated species.

But then…..if you flipped to the other side of the coin….do man actually pretend to be the kind of man, they think women like?

Its a complicated world out there……..

*MH musing over a friend who think the word “love” is utterly disgusting, and “relationship” is not exactly what he’ll describe his attachment to a girl, and that left me with no other word in my vocabulary to define such relationship. Being just an acquaintance, seems too distance……..well…I did say life is complicated, didn’t I?